Workplace Newcomers Are Easily Sick Of Class.

< p > "thinking of going to work every day, my legs are just like lead, I can't lift them up!"

After a month's work, many college graduates have received the first salary after the official a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > work < /a >, but the psychological problems such as anxiety and other psychological problems frequently hit the workplace newcomers due to the drop in salary and the pressure of survival.

Working for only a month, many job newcomers suffer from "tired of class".

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< p > < strong > thousand yuan monthly salary triggering internal and external attack /strong < /p >

< p > "although there is a certain psychological expectation, I did not expect so much."

Speaking of the first salary, Xiao Xu has a lot of feelings.

He graduated from a famous university graduate, and now he works for a publishing house. His salary is 1050 yuan a month after taxes.

"I didn't earn much while I was working. I used to work as a TA at weekends, and I had 250 yuan in two days.

With some odd jobs, the days are getting moist! "Xiao Xu is very depressed.

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< p > "especially when you meet your girlfriend's birthday and Tanabata, you feel that your bottom is not enough, you can save your province, and your classmates get together."

Recently, due to excessive anxiety, Xiao Xu has been losing appetite and often can't sleep at night.

Every day when I go to work, I think of the income that I can't make ends meet, and I feel depressed and unwilling to contact with the outside world.

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< p > for the small Xu, the most painful thing is the parents do not understand.

"My mother asked me to pay 1000 yuan a month, how should I live?" Xiao Xu complained to the author.

Parents do not believe that graduate students earn only such a sum of money, and insist that they lie about their wages.

Xiao Xu spent all his time explaining his parents' last words: "pay so little, and simply don't do it!" so the family war was staged every day.

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Less than P, Xiao Xu should go home from work every day and have to summon up one hundred thousand points of courage before ventured into the house.

Because he knew that his father must be greeted with machine gun nagging: "people's children do not have a good school, your salary is much higher than yours, you simply don't want to do it!" < /p >

< p > < strong > loan repayment nightmares, crying and waking dreams, < /strong > < /p >

< p > 16 nights, Chen Yi (a pseudonym) woke up again from his dream.

In the dream, the bank staff told her that the house had been withdrawn for three months because of the continuous loan, although she tried hard to shout, the staff and the house still went farther and farther away.

Wake up and feel the pillow. It's wet again.

"Similar dreams have been done four times this week."

Chen Yan said with red eyes.

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Last Thursdy, Chen Yi received her first a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > her income < /a > 1100 yuan after her graduation from her graduate school. When she looked at her parents' wrinkled cheeks, Chen Yi did not even know how to tell her salary.

Because she has been reading for 20 years, her parents haven't changed their houses. They think their daughter has already started making money. Their parents finally bite their teeth and mortgage a commercial apartment, which is 2500 yuan a month.

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< p > there were still illusions about the salary of the daughter. The elder decided to spend 1000 yuan on Chen's art.

In this way, Chen can only continue to eat parents at home.

I thought I could honor them well after graduation, but I didn't expect to end up being "gnawing old people".

Every day he goes to work.

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< p > < strong > expert opinion: face < a href= "//www.sjfzxm.com/news/index_c.asp" > pressure < /a > adjustment mindset < /strong > /p >

Chen Mo P, a counselor at East China Normal University, thinks that the protagonists in these two cases are prone to depression.

Therefore, she suggested that when facing the pressure of survival, the workplace newcomers must consider the problem from a different angle, face the reality with a positive attitude, and often do some positive psychological hints for themselves.

For example, "it's great to be able to stand in the great Shanghai." "I'm much better than those who can't find a job." otherwise, the increase of negative emotions will eventually lead to depression.

Only with an optimistic attitude can we get more opportunities to raise salaries.

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